SELECT 
  a.* 
FROM 
  netting_destination_elements as a 
  LEFT JOIN netting_destinations as b ON b.destination_id = a.destination_id 
WHERE 
  b.status = 'A'

Query time 0.00041

JSON explain

{
  "query_block": {
    "select_id": 1,
    "nested_loop": [
      {
        "table": {
          "table_name": "b",
          "access_type": "index",
          "possible_keys": ["PRIMARY", "c_status"],
          "key": "c_status",
          "key_length": "6",
          "used_key_parts": ["destination_id", "status"],
          "rows": 3,
          "filtered": 100,
          "attached_condition": "b.`status` = 'A'",
          "using_index": true
        }
      },
      {
        "table": {
          "table_name": "a",
          "access_type": "ref",
          "possible_keys": ["c_status"],
          "key": "c_status",
          "key_length": "3",
          "used_key_parts": ["destination_id"],
          "ref": ["pucuda_cscart.b.destination_id"],
          "rows": 99,
          "filtered": 100
        }
      }
    ]
  }
}